I am still dating the same girl I had talked about a couple months ago, but right now, it is at a point where the only way I can keep things going is by pushing and pulling emotionally We just had a conversation last Saturday about our dates, expectations and she said that she liked everything about me, that she thinks we have potential, and I agree, I thought it was a great conversation and I felt good after we talked But then, the behavior suddenly becomes inconsistent, so the only way I find to keep things interesting is by "creating some tension" and then "pulling".
Chasing doesn’t work because chasing subcommunicates lower value: if you’re chasing her, that must mean she’s higher value than you, otherwise she would be chasing you.It takes the uncertainty out of meeting and dating or seducing women; the only mystery is your friends wondering how you got so good at The Game. Develop a skill or hobby that involves physical fitness or martial arts go take a month of kickboxing. I don’t know why but every time I approached some attractive woman and very beautiful, I ended up crashing at the time of the conversation.The folks at Love Systems have been collecting the best routines from pick up artists (PUAs) all over the world (going all the way back to the days of ). It doesn’t really matter as long as something is making you stronger or giving you martial arts training. When you’re too shy things seem more difficult than the normal.What you're describing is game-playing and that's not how healthy relationships work, IMO.What is this behavior that suddenly becomes "inconsistent"? And what do you mean by needing to "keep things interesting"? Just another term for trying to put a square peg in a round hole.