Hi Evan, This is a curiosity more than a dating advice question.
I’ve read several of your posts that suggest that charismatic alpha males do not make good partners.
She finally concluded that, based on my profile, I would probably cheat on my wife a few times. It’s more important to me to be a good husband and father than it is to pursue my selfish interests at all costs.
If anything, I have a fierce ethical streak (which surfaces here from time to time) which is stronger than my thirst for money or new women.
She lives in a very black and white world and has a bunch of catchy aphorisms that she trots out when she sees common dating dynamics – especially for women with an excess of masculine energy.
I turned to her because we’d met on a panel once before and because I respected her experience and wisdom.
“The words a man chooses how to write a dating profile have power,” Xuma says. Every word has to convey the image the man wants to send.” Xuma’s new report outlines just how to do this in simple terms and by the samples of dating profiles it includes.
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